What does it mean to be concerned about social life? Does it mean, making sure you are out in the world doing things and not staying home? Does it mean, being active in living your life? Or, does it mean something more then just that?
I want those who are reading this to understand that if we are going to talk about social concerns we need to look at what it is. Every human being lives two lives. No, I am not speaking of some strange theology, just hear me out. The first life is that of ourselves, how we live, how we treat our bodies and how we view ourselves. The second life is the communal life, how we live with others, and how we treat and deal with everyone else.
We are Bible College students, alumni, staff and faculty, who are living in world that comes with being on campus or off, where it is separate from the world outside. Now some will say that this is not the case but I digress. We are focussed on homework, classes, projects, chapel, meals, studying, and dealing with one another in one place. You don’t need to leave the campus to find social experiences because you live with a social group.
As a commuter I have had the chance as many others to live in both the college “bubble,” and the outside world. What I can tell you is that it is challenging to balance the two. One day I am at the school doing the college thing, the next I am at work making sure I do what is needed there. I work with the organization, Ray of Hope, at the Oasis Drop-in Centre, and have been a part for three years. I have done everything from cleaning floors, to dealing with those in harsh situations, to just being with those who so many have rejected. How we treat ourselves and how we treat others. Two separate worlds.
So what is there to do? We are called to live full lives to the full by Christ, and I have learned that when Christ talks about those around us, he means everyone, good or bad. Many of the hardest things to do are noted by Christ as important.
In Matthew 5:43-6:4, we see Christ speaking about loving our enemies, and giving to the poor and in need, which is no small task and very difficult. We are not to see it as something to march around saying I am great because of what I do, but live as though what I do is a part of who I am in Christ. In Mark 12:29-33, Christ speaks about our double life that we are to love God with everything, and then love others as ourselves. The two lives are one. John 13:12-17, is a look at why Christ washed his disciple’s feet, a look at the servant’s heart. Lastly is Matthew 25:31-46, when from the great throne, people are seen through the actions they have made in the world they know.
I share all this because I am passionate that we are not to live life just to become better, or smarter or greater, because all of that is nothing compared to the love you show your friends and family but even farther, to those in need and those who you deem enemies in this world. We are given a huge task of loving others, are you up to stepping to the plate?
What I am asking for is that we step out of our comfort zones, we get out of the idea that we need to live safe by cutting the world out, and that we have been called to serve those we have been raised to be cautious of. There are dangers in the world, and nothing is able to be 100% safe, but if we don’t step out of our comfort zones we cannot grow.
Be active this semester, and when you see opportunities to grow, or learn take them. There are many chances to experience the world outside of EBC that are able to help you experience living a full life, and still be with those you can trust. Have ideas or questions? Make sure that you contact our Social Concern’s Coordinator, Matt Winger. I am just one voice in a sea of many, and I leave you with this.
A flower breaks from its safe seed and grows to break the ground into the harsh world, but is ready from the growth below the ground. As you live as a college student and so on, take in what is being taught, know what is being shared with you, and take steps to serve and love as Christ loves. So that when you leave this place, into the harsh world, you can stand as a true light in this darkened world.
Mark Dakin